Resources.

• Baby fingerprint necklace here, here or imprint here

• Baby hand/foot molds 

• Hair locket or hair keepsake

• Offer to purchase her birth pictures or be the photographer if you're close enough

• Baby Look-alike Doll (for after birth so the gender, color hair, etc. is known)

• *Tip* Send the nurse's station a gift basket - they will take better care of your loved ones!

• Tear Soup

• Every Moment Holy, Volume II

• The Fall of Freddie the Leaf

• Grieving the Child I Never Knew: A Devotional for Comfort in the Loss of Your Unborn or Newly Born Child

• Grace Like Scarlett: Grieving with Hope after Miscarriage and Loss

• Angel Book: A Baby Loss Journal

• Baby heartbeat recorder

• Angel Book: A Baby Loss Journal

• ​My Baby’s Heartbeat Bear Recordable Stuffed Animals

• Recordable Ultrasound Frame

• Coordinate a Meal Train or Take Them a Meal

• Offer to clean their house/do laundry during pregnancy or postpartum

• Offer to watch the older children so the parents can go talk about life, go on a date, go to counseling, or to a prenatal appointment alone.

• Say you're sending over some food & that you'll leave it on the front porch (less pressure).

• Offer to support her by cleaning the house/doing dishes/laundry if that feels ok to her. Tell her that there's no pressure to even come out of the bedroom. 

• Get some friends/church ladies together and go in on 4 weekly massages.

• Offer to take the kids for the today, so she can rest. 

• We Were Gonna Have a Baby, But We Had an Angel Instead  

• We Had To Say Goodbye Before We Even Met

• There was a Baby...

• The Invisible String

• My Sibling Still 

• Yes it's ok to call... If she doesn't answer, leave a lovely voicemail sharing your condolences.

• Send a simple text. Not once, but every week or two, for a 3 months

• "Thinking about you today friend..."

      OR

• "I'm praying for your sweet heart..."

      OR 

• "I'm here when you're ready to talk...Is today a good day?"

• Offer to bring her over some tea and hear all about your beautiful birth... and anything else she's ready to talk about. 

• Offer to come run her a lovely hot bath. Bring some essential oils, offer to add to the tub. Make her some tea & set beside the tub for her.